Ahhhh the age old question: Do we have free will or are we just puppets in a punch and judy show? Well the truth is that it’s a bit of both really. (I promise you this is not a cop out!) It’s such a fundamental question about our lives that people ask on a daily basis and yet it is probably one of the things we’ll never know in our corporeal forms. I, for one, often wake up bruised and scarred from the events of the day before. Seldom do I wake up fresh with zeal and looking forward to the day ahead. But does that mean that my fate should leave me scarred and always and in a state of disrepair? In fact, the opposite is true, If you, like me, often wake up dreading the daily grind then maybe it’s out time we stopped fate in it’s tracks. After all do you want your fate to be that of someone who always wakes up on the wrong side of bed?
With this in mind there are two ways of further looking at this whole argument.
Firstly, is your fate, to you, so mundane to you that all it involves is the daily slog and nothing more? No enjoyment, no fulfillment, and no satisfaction with your actions? Do you live each day because you have to or is there a deliberate demeanor to which you act? If your fate is sealed, then what more is there for you to do apart from just go with the flow? This would also mean that there is little that can be done about the future except let it happen.
Not the most productive way to live your life. In my experience, this kind of thinking leads to an innate laziness and a tendency to procrastinate heavily.
The second way it to percieve this is that fate exists but that you are not at it’s mercy. Fate is a force we cannot control, however we can always determine what we choose to be in this moment. I choose how to perceive where I am right now and what to do with what has been bestowed on me. I can choose consciously what decisions to make and do what we feel is right for me. When faced with something, I can choose to deal with it as a challenge and to make the most of it, or to do it half heartedly.
It’s not always easy to choose the former, in fact, it is always the more difficult of the two. To be productive and proactive is never a quick coast down a hill. It’s more like being on a escalator walking up the stairs, you’re making the effort. And an unseen force is giving you a helping hand.


January 8th, 2006 at 12:29 pm
Interesting way of looking at things. I do sort of believe in fate but reading over what you’ve said has made me think a little. Nice blog by the way!
June 21st, 2006 at 3:57 pm
This is a cool way of looking at things. I have to do an essay for school that is titled “Destiny vs. Choice” and this entry has sparked some ideas for it!
Thanks.
June 21st, 2006 at 7:45 pm
Hi Danielle! Glad to hear it. If you want to chat more about it you can just email me or post another response. It’s pretty similar to the chicken and the egg debate. To be honest I think it’s one of those things we’ll never find an answer to but it’s always makes for a lively discussion. The best angle to approach this subject from is which way of thinking serves you best?!
July 8th, 2007 at 4:44 pm
to me god has a plan for all of us which is our destiny. You may make a choice but god already new that you where going to make that choice. He makes and writes your destiny it’s his plan for you.
July 8th, 2007 at 4:45 pm
to me god has a plan for all of us which is our destiny. You may make a choice but god already new that you where going to make that choice. He makes and writes your destiny it’s his plan for us.
July 16th, 2007 at 1:18 am
Hi, that was a very insightful post, I too am writing a similar essay and found your view of combining the two interesting and logical. I had a similar view on the matter as I would find it hard to believe that my entire life is not my own. I really liked your escalator analogy too. Thanks for that and good luck with your blog.
November 6th, 2007 at 7:37 am
I myself do not believe in fate.
I think it’s always our decision to be who we want to be.
I have never seen myself as a victim of any force, as I feel it is just creating excuses.