Comments on: Never Underestimate The Power Of Negativity http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/empowerment/never-underestimate-the-power-of-negativity/ INSPIRED DECISIVE THINKING - A BLOG BY AMIT SODHA Fri, 05 Mar 2010 00:31:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: A Quick Guide To Dealing With Negative People | The Power Of Choice http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/empowerment/never-underestimate-the-power-of-negativity/#comment-58290 A Quick Guide To Dealing With Negative People | The Power Of Choice Tue, 12 Jan 2010 14:14:58 +0000 http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/?p=1896#comment-58290 [...] in Coaching Using my keen, highly developed, scooby sense I discovered something quite interesting last year. There are two types of negative people and two very distinct ways of dealing with them. Before I continue though I’d like mention that negativity is nothing to be feared, and is infact, a key part of your life. It has it’s purpose and it’s purpose must be acknowledged. Sometimes that negativity can be leveraged to be a great motivator so never underestimate it’s power. [...] [...] in Coaching Using my keen, highly developed, scooby sense I discovered something quite interesting last year. There are two types of negative people and two very distinct ways of dealing with them. Before I continue though I’d like mention that negativity is nothing to be feared, and is infact, a key part of your life. It has it’s purpose and it’s purpose must be acknowledged. Sometimes that negativity can be leveraged to be a great motivator so never underestimate it’s power. [...]

]]> By: Amit Sodha http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/empowerment/never-underestimate-the-power-of-negativity/#comment-57411 Amit Sodha Mon, 16 Nov 2009 14:00:48 +0000 http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/?p=1896#comment-57411 Thanks Amanda, I think it's important to recognise the opportunities in adversity! Thanks for commenting! :-) Thanks Amanda,

I think it’s important to recognise the opportunities in adversity! Thanks for commenting! :-)

]]> By: amanda@choosing-life-my-way.com http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/empowerment/never-underestimate-the-power-of-negativity/#comment-57371 amanda@choosing-life-my-way.com Sat, 14 Nov 2009 00:24:34 +0000 http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/?p=1896#comment-57371 You have a really good angle on living with, and learning from, all our emotions and experiences- the good, the bad, and the ugly. Great read :) .-= amanda@choosing-life-my-way.com´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.choosing-life-my-way.com/i-want-my-life-back.html" rel="nofollow">Saying I Want My Life Back Means Regaining Empowerment</a> =-. You have a really good angle on living with, and learning from, all our emotions and experiences- the good, the bad, and the ugly. Great read :)
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]]> By: Lana - Dreamfollowers Blog http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/empowerment/never-underestimate-the-power-of-negativity/#comment-57313 Lana - Dreamfollowers Blog Tue, 10 Nov 2009 03:20:17 +0000 http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/?p=1896#comment-57313 I loved this post Amit, especially-"It will always be part of you but don’t let it overpower you." Lots of wisdom in this words. .-= Lana - Dreamfollowers Blog´s last blog ..<a href="http://dreamfollowers.com/positive-thinking" rel="nofollow">Why Positive Thinking Doesn’t Work</a> =-. I loved this post Amit, especially-”It will always be part of you but don’t let it overpower you.” Lots of wisdom in this words.
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]]> By: Amit Sodha http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/empowerment/never-underestimate-the-power-of-negativity/#comment-57302 Amit Sodha Mon, 09 Nov 2009 12:28:13 +0000 http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/?p=1896#comment-57302 Thanks for checking out the site and leaving comments! :-) Thanks for checking out the site and leaving comments! :-)

]]> By: steppinout http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/empowerment/never-underestimate-the-power-of-negativity/#comment-57300 steppinout Mon, 09 Nov 2009 11:43:37 +0000 http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/?p=1896#comment-57300 As a normal human being, we're not perfect. That's life .-= steppinout´s last blog ..<a href="http://steppinoutblog.info/direct-access-and-manage-your-windows-live-skydrive-files-on-desktop" rel="nofollow">Direct Access And Manage Your Windows Live SkyDrive Files On Desktop</a> =-. As a normal human being, we’re not perfect. That’s life
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]]> By: Amit Sodha http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/empowerment/never-underestimate-the-power-of-negativity/#comment-57293 Amit Sodha Sun, 08 Nov 2009 02:52:41 +0000 http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/?p=1896#comment-57293 Hey Chanda, That's a great idea and great practise for the good times. It's great to get into the practise of, whilst in the good times, that you are there and so you method coupled with that would be an awesome idea! Thanks so much for the comments! :-) Hey Chanda,

That’s a great idea and great practise for the good times. It’s great to get into the practise of, whilst in the good times, that you are there and so you method coupled with that would be an awesome idea!

Thanks so much for the comments! :-)

]]> By: Chanda | BizDharma.com http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/empowerment/never-underestimate-the-power-of-negativity/#comment-57291 Chanda | BizDharma.com Sat, 07 Nov 2009 11:12:52 +0000 http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/?p=1896#comment-57291 Hey Amit, thats a great post. Taking your thoughts forward, to come out of negativity there is a good idea that I often recommend. Its no use searching for solace once you are already broken. Hence whenever a person is in good mood he should definitely jot down some lines about how he is feeling, why is he great and how he will fight back in tough times. Reading this material which is self written when you feel broken helps us to easily regain the confidence. I hope this helped. Also thanks for such a detailed post .-= Chanda | BizDharma.com´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Bizdharma/~3/HMzMtmGIhDU/" rel="nofollow">Are you trying to be an “iPhone killer”? 7 good reasons to immediately stop.</a> =-. Hey Amit, thats a great post.

Taking your thoughts forward, to come out of negativity there is a good idea that I often recommend. Its no use searching for solace once you are already broken. Hence whenever a person is in good mood he should definitely jot down some lines about how he is feeling, why is he great and how he will fight back in tough times. Reading this material which is self written when you feel broken helps us to easily regain the confidence.

I hope this helped. Also thanks for such a detailed post
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]]> By: Amit Sodha http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/empowerment/never-underestimate-the-power-of-negativity/#comment-57290 Amit Sodha Sat, 07 Nov 2009 01:16:03 +0000 http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/?p=1896#comment-57290 @Eduard - So true my friend and that's been my experience, especially over the last 2 years or so. It's like, if I fight it, it fights back. If I let it be, it lets me be. @Eduard – So true my friend and that’s been my experience, especially over the last 2 years or so. It’s like, if I fight it, it fights back. If I let it be, it lets me be.

]]> By: Amit Sodha http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/empowerment/never-underestimate-the-power-of-negativity/#comment-57289 Amit Sodha Sat, 07 Nov 2009 01:14:47 +0000 http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/?p=1896#comment-57289 @Jen. Thanks for commenting. I don't mean that you have to get down and dirty and wallow with them. I think I could have phrased it better by saying that it's like communicating positive messages to them using negative language. It hasn't failed me yet. Thank you so much for commenting! :-) @Jen. Thanks for commenting. I don’t mean that you have to get down and dirty and wallow with them. I think I could have phrased it better by saying that it’s like communicating positive messages to them using negative language. It hasn’t failed me yet.

Thank you so much for commenting! :-)

]]> By: Amit Sodha http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/empowerment/never-underestimate-the-power-of-negativity/#comment-57288 Amit Sodha Sat, 07 Nov 2009 01:13:21 +0000 http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/?p=1896#comment-57288 @Tristan, it's true. It's like trying to convince yourself out of negativity only it makes you feel worse. It's always been my experience that whenever I go with it, the quicker I come out of it. :-) @Tristan, it’s true. It’s like trying to convince yourself out of negativity only it makes you feel worse. It’s always been my experience that whenever I go with it, the quicker I come out of it. :-)

]]> By: Kevin Sinclair http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/empowerment/never-underestimate-the-power-of-negativity/#comment-58769 Kevin Sinclair Fri, 06 Nov 2009 21:27:47 +0000 http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/?p=1896#comment-58769 <span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">Never Underestimate The Power Of Negativity http://ff.im/-b6k2U</span></span> Never Underestimate The Power Of Negativity http://ff.im/-b6k2U

]]> By: Ideas With A Kick http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/empowerment/never-underestimate-the-power-of-negativity/#comment-57287 Ideas With A Kick Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:40:35 +0000 http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/?p=1896#comment-57287 Hey Amit, I think your on to something. I find often that embracing my negativity and just going with it helps me eventually getting over things. I have occasional negativity session when if you could here my internal dialog, you might think I'm about to commit suicide. It's therapeutic. Many people try to deny or bury their negativity on deny it. I don't think that works very well. Eduard .-= Ideas With A Kick´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.ideaswithakick.com/enough-with-the-mind-reading-get-a-360-feedback/" rel="nofollow">Enough with the mind reading: get a 360 feedback!</a> =-. Hey Amit,

I think your on to something. I find often that embracing my negativity and just going with it helps me eventually getting over things. I have occasional negativity session when if you could here my internal dialog, you might think I’m about to commit suicide. It’s therapeutic. Many people try to deny or bury their negativity on deny it. I don’t think that works very well.

Eduard
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]]> By: Jen http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/empowerment/never-underestimate-the-power-of-negativity/#comment-57286 Jen Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:01:39 +0000 http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/?p=1896#comment-57286 Hi Amit...get what you are saying, although on one point I disagree. It is not necessary to get down there and wallow and be negative with someone else. If you are a positive person, there is no need to sacrifice your positive energy to meet someone at their level. Nor is it necessary (or sometimes possible) to pep them up with your positivity. However, if you can show empathy to someone who is being negative, that will let them feel heard in a way that empowers them to get themselves out of the rut...and the good thing is that you don't have to step down to that yourself. Hi Amit…get what you are saying, although on one point I disagree. It is not necessary to get down there and wallow and be negative with someone else. If you are a positive person, there is no need to sacrifice your positive energy to meet someone at their level. Nor is it necessary (or sometimes possible) to pep them up with your positivity. However, if you can show empathy to someone who is being negative, that will let them feel heard in a way that empowers them to get themselves out of the rut…and the good thing is that you don’t have to step down to that yourself.

]]> By: Tristan Lee http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/empowerment/never-underestimate-the-power-of-negativity/#comment-57285 Tristan Lee Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:07:16 +0000 http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/?p=1896#comment-57285 Nice post Amit. The problem with a lot of people is that they try to be 100% positive. Being negative during the times when you "are" negative reinforces that we are human being, that we are being genuine to ourselves. The faster we can accept this, the easier it becomes to turn a negative state into a more positive one. .-= Tristan Lee´s last blog ..<a href="http://frombottomup.com/6-golden-rules-for-attracting-more-wealth-into-your-life/" rel="nofollow">6 Golden Rules for Attracting More Wealth Into Your Life</a> =-. Nice post Amit. The problem with a lot of people is that they try to be 100% positive. Being negative during the times when you “are” negative reinforces that we are human being, that we are being genuine to ourselves. The faster we can accept this, the easier it becomes to turn a negative state into a more positive one.
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