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		<title>By: The Ultimate 40 Posts For Valentine&#8217;s Day &#124; Make It Happen</title>
		<link>http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/humour/how-to-be-single-and-enjoy-every-second/#comment-59332</link>
		<dc:creator>The Ultimate 40 Posts For Valentine&#8217;s Day &#124; Make It Happen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 15:16:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] 10. How to make the most of your Valentine&#8217;s Day, whether you are single or not [...]</description>
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		<title>By: How to Make the Most out of Your Valentine’s Day Whether You Are Single or Not &#124; Balance In Me</title>
		<link>http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/humour/how-to-be-single-and-enjoy-every-second/#comment-59284</link>
		<dc:creator>How to Make the Most out of Your Valentine’s Day Whether You Are Single or Not &#124; Balance In Me</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 18:16:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Enjoy being single. A friend of mine Amit Sodha wrote a great article on why it is great to be single. Read it here – How to Be Single and Enjoy Every Second. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Enjoy being single. A friend of mine Amit Sodha wrote a great article on why it is great to be single. Read it here – How to Be Single and Enjoy Every Second. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Amit Sodha</title>
		<link>http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/humour/how-to-be-single-and-enjoy-every-second/#comment-57924</link>
		<dc:creator>Amit Sodha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 09:47:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Amie, maybe it&#039;s a sign of where your journey lies! :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Amie, maybe it&#8217;s a sign of where your journey lies! <img src='http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Amie</title>
		<link>http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/humour/how-to-be-single-and-enjoy-every-second/#comment-57914</link>
		<dc:creator>Amie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 19:47:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I find that all the really great friends I&#039;ve met ( many of them male friends) online live across the pond or in Canada. I live in the U.S. by birth, not choice. Its too bad so many interesting people are in other countries.  Perhaps I should travel more...haha.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find that all the really great friends I&#8217;ve met ( many of them male friends) online live across the pond or in Canada. I live in the U.S. by birth, not choice. Its too bad so many interesting people are in other countries.  Perhaps I should travel more&#8230;haha.</p>
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		<title>By: Amit Sodha</title>
		<link>http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/humour/how-to-be-single-and-enjoy-every-second/#comment-57882</link>
		<dc:creator>Amit Sodha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 09:51:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s my pleasure Marianne and I hope you enjoy the experiment of being single! :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s my pleasure Marianne and I hope you enjoy the experiment of being single! <img src='http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Marianne</title>
		<link>http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/humour/how-to-be-single-and-enjoy-every-second/#comment-57491</link>
		<dc:creator>Marianne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:03:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much for this article - I have never managed to be single for more than a few months (even when I&#039;m &#039;trying&#039; to stay single!). On the good side this means I have had wonderful relationships with some very special people, but on the downside it means I literally don&#039;t know how to stay single, or what it feels like!

Now I am &#039;single&#039; I want to stay that way, just to see what it&#039;s like and what I&#039;ve been missing.

So thank you - your post was just what was needed :) Looking forward to all the freedom and possibilities of singledom!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for this article &#8211; I have never managed to be single for more than a few months (even when I&#8217;m &#8216;trying&#8217; to stay single!). On the good side this means I have had wonderful relationships with some very special people, but on the downside it means I literally don&#8217;t know how to stay single, or what it feels like!</p>
<p>Now I am &#8217;single&#8217; I want to stay that way, just to see what it&#8217;s like and what I&#8217;ve been missing.</p>
<p>So thank you &#8211; your post was just what was needed <img src='http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Looking forward to all the freedom and possibilities of singledom!</p>
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		<title>By: Be Special to Find the Special One &#124; Make It Happen</title>
		<link>http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/humour/how-to-be-single-and-enjoy-every-second/#comment-57440</link>
		<dc:creator>Be Special to Find the Special One &#124; Make It Happen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] be clear that is perfectly okay to be single &#8211; here is a great article by my friend Amit about how to be single and enjoy every second ­ The question that we first have to answer here is what does “special” really mean to you? [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] be clear that is perfectly okay to be single &#8211; here is a great article by my friend Amit about how to be single and enjoy every second ­ The question that we first have to answer here is what does “special” really mean to you? [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Amit Sodha</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amit Sodha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 16:09:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Amie - Whever you are and whatever path you&#039;ve chosen and if you&#039;re happy and not intentionally out there hurting anyone then I say more power to you! ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Amie &#8211; Whever you are and whatever path you&#8217;ve chosen and if you&#8217;re happy and not intentionally out there hurting anyone then I say more power to you! <img src='http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Amit Sodha</title>
		<link>http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/humour/how-to-be-single-and-enjoy-every-second/#comment-57342</link>
		<dc:creator>Amit Sodha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 16:08:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am and enjoying every minute of it! :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am and enjoying every minute of it! <img src='http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Amie S</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amie S</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 05:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I thinks its great that so many singles find joy in being single and still go dating.  Personally I think its important to date because it does help you discover yourself and want you like about in others.  Even if the person is not actively looking for a committed relationship right away. I&#039;m okay if someone happens across my path someday. A committed relationship and even marriage isnt on my to-do list. It used to be, when i was younger. Somehow my journey so far while I have been single has brought me so many fulfilling experiences without someone being there. though, it is part of human nature to want to share lifes experiences with someone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I thinks its great that so many singles find joy in being single and still go dating.  Personally I think its important to date because it does help you discover yourself and want you like about in others.  Even if the person is not actively looking for a committed relationship right away. I&#8217;m okay if someone happens across my path someday. A committed relationship and even marriage isnt on my to-do list. It used to be, when i was younger. Somehow my journey so far while I have been single has brought me so many fulfilling experiences without someone being there. though, it is part of human nature to want to share lifes experiences with someone.</p>
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		<title>By: Arvind Devalia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Arvind Devalia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 22:20:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Amit,

Great Amit. I am glad I was able to add some value to your blog:-)

It is always good to meet a variety of people (women) as it makes your life that much richer.

Enjoy! 

Now go and find &quot;HER&quot;:-)
.-= Arvind Devalia&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.arvinddevalia.com/blog/2009/11/06/how-my-single-day-of-blindness-opened-my-eyes-forever/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How My Single Day of Blindness Opened My Eyes Forever!&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Amit,</p>
<p>Great Amit. I am glad I was able to add some value to your blog:-)</p>
<p>It is always good to meet a variety of people (women) as it makes your life that much richer.</p>
<p>Enjoy! </p>
<p>Now go and find &#8220;HER&#8221;:-)<br />
<span class="cluv"> Arvind Devalia&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.arvinddevalia.com/blog/2009/11/06/how-my-single-day-of-blindness-opened-my-eyes-forever/">How My Single Day of Blindness Opened My Eyes Forever!</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Amit Sodha</title>
		<link>http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/humour/how-to-be-single-and-enjoy-every-second/#comment-57328</link>
		<dc:creator>Amit Sodha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 17:25:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love the fact that you follow your own path and you also understand and respect other peoples decisions!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the fact that you follow your own path and you also understand and respect other peoples decisions!</p>
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		<title>By: Amie S</title>
		<link>http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/humour/how-to-be-single-and-enjoy-every-second/#comment-57326</link>
		<dc:creator>Amie S</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 16:20:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No, I dont date. I dont even look. My only intention is to love what I do and be happy in the here and now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No, I dont date. I dont even look. My only intention is to love what I do and be happy in the here and now.</p>
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		<title>By: Amit Sodha</title>
		<link>http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/humour/how-to-be-single-and-enjoy-every-second/#comment-57325</link>
		<dc:creator>Amit Sodha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 15:26:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;The beauty of my journey is that having met so many different women and learnt from so many different relationships, I am really clear about what I am looking for in a life partner.&quot; - 

Arvind, that&#039;s for pointing that out and that&#039;s something else I totally forgot to mention in this post (although saying that if I mentioned everything I was thinking this post would quite easily have become 5000 words!) :-P

I used to think that getting to know so many women was a bad idea, and one of my limiting beliefs.  But a friend of mine used to date lots of women and during a conversation we had we both came to exactly the same conclusion - that because he had dated so many women he had developed a very clear picture of his ideal partner.  He has now met her! :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;The beauty of my journey is that having met so many different women and learnt from so many different relationships, I am really clear about what I am looking for in a life partner.&#8221; &#8211; </p>
<p>Arvind, that&#8217;s for pointing that out and that&#8217;s something else I totally forgot to mention in this post (although saying that if I mentioned everything I was thinking this post would quite easily have become 5000 words!) <img src='http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':-P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I used to think that getting to know so many women was a bad idea, and one of my limiting beliefs.  But a friend of mine used to date lots of women and during a conversation we had we both came to exactly the same conclusion &#8211; that because he had dated so many women he had developed a very clear picture of his ideal partner.  He has now met her! <img src='http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Arvind Devalia</title>
		<link>http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/humour/how-to-be-single-and-enjoy-every-second/#comment-57324</link>
		<dc:creator>Arvind Devalia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 15:14:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amit, I am glad you have written so passioanately about being single!

Clearly singledom suits you:-)

Like you I am single and have been for a while through choice. I too would like to meet my life partner, &quot;soul-mate even. But in the meantime there is not reason not to put myself out there and enjoy life to the full which is what I am doing.

The beauty of my journey is that having met so many different women and learnt from so many different relationships, I am really clear about what I am looking for in a life partner. 

So I would say to any other single people out there - chill out (rather than getting hung up about single), enjoy life to the full, have lots of fun (in whatever form you like) and learn more about just what you want from life, your partner and in a relationship.

Go out and enjoy - and find your soulmate :-)
.-= Arvind Devalia&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.arvinddevalia.com/blog/2009/11/06/how-my-single-day-of-blindness-opened-my-eyes-forever/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How My Single Day of Blindness Opened My Eyes Forever!&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amit, I am glad you have written so passioanately about being single!</p>
<p>Clearly singledom suits you:-)</p>
<p>Like you I am single and have been for a while through choice. I too would like to meet my life partner, &#8220;soul-mate even. But in the meantime there is not reason not to put myself out there and enjoy life to the full which is what I am doing.</p>
<p>The beauty of my journey is that having met so many different women and learnt from so many different relationships, I am really clear about what I am looking for in a life partner. </p>
<p>So I would say to any other single people out there &#8211; chill out (rather than getting hung up about single), enjoy life to the full, have lots of fun (in whatever form you like) and learn more about just what you want from life, your partner and in a relationship.</p>
<p>Go out and enjoy &#8211; and find your soulmate <img src='http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
<span class="cluv"> Arvind Devalia&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.arvinddevalia.com/blog/2009/11/06/how-my-single-day-of-blindness-opened-my-eyes-forever/">How My Single Day of Blindness Opened My Eyes Forever!</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.unlimitedchoice.org/blog/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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